• Just the fact of hanging around with pretty girls increases your chance to get new girls. Do you have a pretty sister? Then go with her somewhere you can be seen by other girls. WwwWw: "Women want what other women want".
• The harder you try to date her & the harder you try to meet her again the more likely she is to think that you have no chance with other girls so there must be something seriously wrong with you.
• Don't stare. Not only will "stalking" scare a woman off but it also contradicts the rule that you should not show interest.
• Don't talk about sex on the first date (see also No sex-talks below). Not-talking about sex will increase the tension on the girl's part to try harder.
• The more you act as if you are not interested in a girl, the more the girls will think
  • that you had many girls and are a womanizer
    • and thus don't need necessarily her (thus she needs to try harder)
    • and she won't look foolish (since so many girls can't be wrong)
  • that you had many girls and are experienced
    • and thus she can show off her kinkiness
    • and thus she can have a good time with you, without some "beginners' hassles"
• If SHE starts to talk/act about sex then this gives her the feeling that she is in control. It's a very favorable condition when she thinks she's leading.

Just meet the girl, ask her for her telephone, don't call her for 2-4 days, meet her again and repeat the procedure until SHE drags you in HER bedroom. See also An offer a woman cannot refuse (important!) and Calling her via Telephone.

Oh, and do not use bad language (swear words etc) and *cough* no stupid fart jokes.

1. Read An offer a woman cannot refuse first.
2. The first time you take a girl out take her somewhere you can dance: Women usually like to dance. Dancing is fun and slow dancing includes touching.
3. Don't touch her breasts.
4. You can make compliments as described in Make Compliments but don't flirt. Don't get sexual with the compliments ("I love your breasts", "You are beautiful").
5. Tell her how much fun you have with her.
6. Don't tell her she's the only one. Instead give her the impression she is not the only one or that you can get a lot of women. "Women want what other women want". You can even bring another girl to a date to make her jealous (double-date so to speak).
7. Don't send her flowers and don't make her presents. Instead show her that you are not always there for her personal use.
8. If you kiss her then kiss her merely as a friend (e.g. cheek kiss to say good-bye)
9. Bring her home and tell her you will call her again.
10. Don't call for several days
11. Repeat this procedure for several dates with her. You can increase the amount of kissing and cuddling and hugging from date to date.
12. After several dates SHE will ask YOU for sex.

All other rules apply (Don't be a crybaby, Let women talk and help, .....)

Moreover talking about old girl-friends can start you to talk about your past mistakes or generalize about "how bad women are today and that you never get to know the right one". Something women you just met don't want to hear.

Moreover the related rule Don't be a crybaby applies.

The actor Mickey Rourke confessed his trick once in an interview after being asked how he gets so many women. He told, he says "I am impotent".

I am not saying you should try this trick, because it's a lie and unfair. I just wanted to demonstrate the difference of the way of thinking between women and men.

Once you have managed to make the woman long for sex you can even increase her desires (and your reputation) by refusing to make normal sex and by insisting on a "cunnilingus only" (= you give her oral sex). You refuse any other kind of sex.

You will become an expert in hugs, soft touches, kisses and ... cunnilingus. The demand for you will increase. The word will spread, the legs will spread and you will be introduced to other women.

In fact the huge amount of effort that women usually put into "looking pretty" to seduce (cosmetics, clothes, hair dressing...) could be a compensation for their inability to "speak".

There is an old example to make this clear: A man drives a car on a highway. His wife is sitting next to him. She says: "Look a petrol station". He nods. She says: "Look another petrol station". He says: "Yes". Now what did she really MEAN? She wanted to go to the toilet. Interesting, isn't it? Even going to the toilet is too "sexual" to tell the husband.

Unfortunately I have to remind my male readers that they not only have to refine/train THEIR OWN dating strategies but also that they have to OVERCOME THE GIRLS' BAD dating strategies.

• Women have often the idea that "being evasive" is attractive to man ("When he looks at me then I look away. This will make him desire me even more"). 
• Women have often the idea that that being "asexual" is attractive to men ("If I kiss him on the first date he will think I am a slut and he will never date me again").
• Women have often the idea that "being mysterious" is attractive to men ("Hmm, this dating formular asks me to specify my interests. I will write 'Contact me to find out'. This will surely make me irresistible!").

Thus men have actually a double task: To know what women want and to circumvent the women's wrong ideas about what men want.

There are more fields where a man is supposed to act:

• The man is expected to approach the woman
• The man is expected to propose what to do (go to the movies, the museum...)
• The man is expected to initiate the first kiss
• The man is expected to make a marriage proposal

I know, I know, very animalistic like in nature: The male bird has to dance. Thus this rule applies basically to girlish woman: Those women who have a lot of "typical" female attitudes: Thinking about shoes and clothes the whole day, suffering from PMS (pre-menstrual syndrome). Those boyish women with short hair, jogging shoes and little make-up may be very different.

Since a woman will hardly use words (see It is your Duty to use Words) she has other methods of showing that she is interested in YOU:

• A woman will move to the rhythm of the music while looking at you
• A woman will touch her breasts
• A women will lean forward to you
• A woman will lean towards you and talk into your ear
• A woman will start to touch you (your shoulder, your arm, your thigh, your hand...)
• A women will blink more
• A woman will blush while being around you
• A woman will blow smoke towards you (Warning! Could be a sign of disgust, too)
• A woman will match her laughing to your laughing
• A woman will match her drinking (= taking the drinking glass) to your drinking (this is a general sympathy rule and doesn't necessary mean sensual readiness)
• A woman will with the table legs: Wrapping her legs around the table legs, touching them etc.
• A woman will smile to you and raise her eyebrows
• A women will keep glancing at you (probably with dilated pupils)
• A women will touch/scratch her legs
• A women will lick her lips, touch her front teeth with her tongue
• A woman will bite her fingernail
• A woman will get erected nipples (sometimes you can see that thru her clothes)
• A women will play with their hair
  • running with her hand thru her hair
  • stroking hair
  • twirling hair around her fingers
  • twisting streaks
  • throwing her hair off her shoulders
• A women will play with her lips (biting them, touch them with a glass etc.)
• A women will look right into your eyes without words and then smile
• A woman will double-check her outfit and will fix it/ enhance it for you
• ...
• And maybe most importantly: A woman will look 3 times at you:
  1. She looks
  2. She looks away
  3. She looks
  4. She looks away
  5. She looks

  Now you can smile at her and go to her. And I literally mean GO. Then apply all the other dating advices of this site :-) But whatever you do: Do not look down or away.

I do not say that a woman will use EVERY of the ways mentioned above to show her "readiness". But a woman usually uses one or more of them.

First of all she will not show any of the signs mentioned in How does a woman show her interest in You? and in Signals of a female Dating Mood. 

• A woman will NOT smile at you
• A woman will NOT touch you
• A women will NOT lean forward to you

Moreover she will do the opposite:

• A woman will walk away from you
• A women will hide her breasts
• A woman will cross her arms

The examples in How does a woman show her interest in You show that a woman is specifically interested in you. But how do women "tell" that they are ready to be approached because of a general dating mood?

• Women will wear shorter skirts
• Women will wear clothes that let her body "shine thru"
• Women will cut out bras.
• Women will use more perfume
• Women will use more make-up than usual
• Women will wear a redder lipstick
• Women will sit with uncrossed legs or They will change the crossing often (left leg on top, right leg on top)

Warning: It may very well mean, that such women have their ovulation taking place and thus can get pregnant.

Probably you think that women should be more direct when it comes to approaching. Perhaps you think women should actually ASK you out and use more WORDS. Then think of this: Perhaps women expect the same from you: Communicating by "gestures" and "faint signs". Even if they don't expect you to send them "hidden messages" they surely read your body in the same way as you listen to their words.

What does it mean for you? It means that you should send out non-verbal communication and that she expects you to read hers. You think YOU have been rejected by words? Maybe she thinks SHE has been rejected by your non-smiling or crossed arms. Please also read Eye-to-eye telepathy.

Fun aside, pheromones (= hardly smellable chemicals to arouse women) can be bought via the internet and they can work, indeed. Pheromones are nature's way to attract women and men. They are produced by the body and induce sexual arousal.

Are pheromones fair? Probably not, but consider this: Is it fair that women use make-up to hide their wrinkles and pimples? Is it fair that they color their eyes and lips to pretend health and arousal? Are push-up bras fair? It it fair that they wear high heels to make their legs look longer?

There is another point to consider: The intake of the pill makes it much harder for men to date women.

• The use of anti-conception pills can lower the sexual libido of women.
• The pill disturbs their olfactory system (= their sense of smell).
• The pill increases the chances for women to get an STD (= Sexually Transmitted Disease). Thus subconsciously a woman may act more repulsive.
• The pill can change a woman: More fat, more pimples, more hair, unpredictable emotions, narrowed band of emotions. This alone can make a woman feel more uncomfortable.

It's interesting: Now that women CAN have more sex they are harder to date. So by using pheromones you might just compensate these effects of the pill.

Ask her to go out as a "friend only".

Simple? Yes, but still one of the most powerful strategies. It's a continuation of The irresistible Resistible. You could tell her "Can we spend some time together, just to teach me some dancing?", "No relationship hassles", "No boy + girl thing", "Just because I need some help to cook something". You get the idea.

You can even ask a girl out who has a boy-friend. You can even ask a girl who is not attracted to you. You can ask and be successful just because it's "as a friend only". Interesting, isn't it? Just stay away from women who just got married.

• She keeps mentioning sex
• She invites you to her place
• She sets up a romantic atmosphere (candles, soft music)
• She kisses you more often
• She kisses you more passionate
• She shows more skin
• ...

One or more of those points. OK, they are not 100% sure but you get an idea.