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Unfortunately women (even in these modern times) are usually literally UNABLE
to formulate their sexual desires into words. This can even apply to an established
girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. Often the female partner simply cannot state IN CLEAR WORDS
what she wants sexually and thus she expects you to "read her mind"
and "act first". Thus women
will nearly NEVER ask you to date them. Instead they will expect YOU to start the
wording.
In fact the huge amount of effort that women usually
put into "looking pretty" to seduce (cosmetics, clothes, hair
dressing...) could be a compensation for their inability to "speak".
There is an old example to make this clear: A
man drives a car on a highway. His wife is sitting next to him. She says:
"Look a petrol station". He nods. She says: "Look another petrol
station". He says: "Yes". Now what did she really MEAN? She
wanted to go to the toilet. Interesting, isn't it? Even going to the toilet
is too "sexual" to tell the husband.
Unfortunately I have to remind my male readers that they not only have to refine/train THEIR OWN dating strategies but also that they have to OVERCOME THE GIRLS' BAD dating
strategies.
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Women have often the idea that "being evasive" is attractive to man ("When he looks at me then I look away. This will make him desire me even
more").
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Women have often the idea that that being "asexual" is attractive to men ("If I kiss him on the first date he will think I am a slut and he will never date me
again").
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Women have often the idea that "being mysterious" is attractive to men ("Hmm, this dating formular asks me to specify my interests. I will write 'Contact me to find out'. This will surely make me
irresistible!").
Thus men have actually a double task: To know what women want and to circumvent the women's wrong ideas about what men want. |